Relationship – Understanding the Head & Tail of it….

Relationship– Bifurcating the words “Relation and Ship”…

A ship when visualized indicates stability…… Associated with a leisurely charm…. …an entity that does not bother to compete much with its other transportation cousins … roadways &airways…yet it has an air of authority and an old world charm. Both words Relation and Ship however indicate a flux… moments of continuous movements…slow, steady and sturdy… ideally at least…

Human kind today though is a new evolved breed.He is a mish mash of logic and emotion.. in varying proportions..

Class-A : Some are Hardcore Robots .. 99% Logica+ 1% Emoticarobot-1214536_960_720.png

Class-B : Some others Softcore Robots…80% Logica + 20% Emotica

Class-C : Some others are 60% Logica +40% Emotica…

Class-D : Some others are 40% Logica +60% Emotica…

Further Logic is static… it can be this or that… emotion on the other hand indicates flux.it rules illogicality…It can be this and that, that and this…a bit of This and some of that… etc..

Lets leave the hardcore and soft-core categories out of our discussion… They are only Skin deep 😉

Now that the mathematics has been sorted and our focus is on Class C&D… Lets use some logical definitions get into deeper realms of the illogical emotions…

Some Dictionary definitions.

Relationshipthe way in which two or more people or groups regard and behave towards each other.

EmotionA mental state that arises spontaneously rather than through conscious effort and is often accompanied by physiological changes; a feeling

Another important aspect is the juxtaposing of emotions onto a relation…There is a superimposition…. Now when the 2 individuals meet, rather their two energies meet…there are actions and reactions … At one level 2 becomes 3 and yet at another level the 2 become 1…

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With even high levels of match… when something as mercurial as emotions needs to mellow…to slowdown… to adapt and suit the stability of any “Relation-ship”…needless to say there can than be there are a fair share of distractions and provocations and animations…(a.k.a mismatch)

They are OK, its natural.. its not the end of the world..it simply goes onto indicate that you have luckily married/living in with a human being and not a Class A Robot…

Being irritated/upset about it is also a sign of LIFE, a sign of Aliveness.. which a Robot is not…

Think of it this way… Each individual in a relationship is a 2 sided coin… having a Heads & a Tails side in themselves..

When both individuals are in a Heads Up(In Sync) position for example, great!! chill out..make love!!enjoy the wave at it’s highest peak….

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When individual happens to be in a different coin position(Out of Sync)…even better… give space to yourselves…go into yourself…Ring in change in yourself… Forget all about the other…The lowest ebb of the wave is simply preparing itself to rise to it’s peak :)… to be back “In-Sync”…

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Author: Team Wellness

A dreamer, who from a window seat of a rail bogey, enjoys staring at the infinite plain lands, re-living images captured by the eyes, amused by a dogs yawn and its trot.. moved by a cows gaze and fascinated by the trail of army ants kissing each other to glory... I am not sure if slow n steady wins the race.. there is no race if you ask me....but certainly slow and steady has its own grace...

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