Discovering the Positive beneath the Negative!!

All of us think between polarities. All people either think for something or think against something… There is nothing right or wrong with it…nothing positive or negative about it… It is simply the way our minds are predominantly wired to think in a particular manner…a particular style… For ex, one has an early morning flight… Read More

The Chattering Mind…across Generations?

Were our ancestors subject to a less Chattering Mind?? Have there been monkeys which were calm and meditative?? Frankly, No..Not at all…(unless some of our ancestors in primate and human form were enlightened)  Mind in one dimension also means split between duality, caught between choices, unsure…indecisive… Confused between this and that… trapped between binaries… What… Read More

Should you avoid negative thoughts??

Imagine a nice day…it’s your day off…you are fully relaxed lying on the grass and gazing into a sky… with the sun playing hide and seek with the clouds. You are feeling so deeply relaxed listening to the birds chirping, the soft breeze brushing against you…And then pure magic happens…You see a beautiful, absolutely amazing… Read More

Why not to Conquer the Mind

Many a times people make a warrior like Statement…”It is all about conquering the Mind”… I just need to conquer my damned mind…These statements are worth analyzing more… The very statement about conquering the mind indicates that there are multiple units functioning in that individual…Who in you wants to conquer your mind?? It indicates there… Read More

While It Lasted!!

A simple “emoticon” cycle… an attempt to portray the indeed complex and unique web of human relations…applicable more than ever in today’s rapidly evolving world !!   The sequence of events-1… The Girl with a golden glow… The Guy with a shadowy green Meet through a Mate… They subsequently Meet and Mate and A radiance emanates… and Folks… Read More

Overcoming Indecisiveness(a.k.a Procrastination)

Life is a Risk and the very nature of risk is taking a a decision. Even the simple act of a toss, before the start of any game involves risk. It may be excellent to win the toss, for the conditions are favorable to suit your strengths…but you may as well lose the toss…the risk… Read More

Anxiety Management…through Stories

It was a typical 1970-1980 setup of India, where landline telephones were a rarity. Telephone penetration was minuscule, as most telephone numbers were 3 digits long and most telephone exchanges were manually operated. Life had a leisurely charm associated with it. There was no tearing hurry, no “Need for Speed”.Development too moved at its own… Read More